tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post882708235253161117..comments2023-12-21T18:43:25.430+00:00Comments on Finding Simplicity: The Black SheepSharon Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09050104785278502068noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-91714362860353412302008-09-20T06:38:00.000+01:002008-09-20T06:38:00.000+01:00Oh Sharon, how awful! I think though, your cousin ...Oh Sharon, how awful! I think though, your cousin probably knows what she did was wrong & is more angry at herself. <BR/><BR/>I don't have contact with my Dad's side. I got tired of never being invited to events, their materialism, their prejudices. Occasionally I wish it could be different, but not that I would spend time with them, but that they would be different. Therefore, I keepAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-11217276668127152032008-09-18T10:10:00.000+01:002008-09-18T10:10:00.000+01:00Hi Wombat. In my experience, families often bring ...Hi Wombat. In my experience, families often bring out the worst in people. I'm very lucky really as I have a very good, close relationship with my mum and my own children and they're the family that really matter. <BR/><BR/>Y'know, I really don't mind being 'the black sheep' - I never wanted to be like everybody else in the field anyway ;)Sharon Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09050104785278502068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-41555538285586504762008-09-18T09:09:00.000+01:002008-09-18T09:09:00.000+01:00PSDearest Sharon ,Please forgive my harshness it's...PS<BR/><BR/>Dearest Sharon ,<BR/>Please forgive my harshness it's not aimed at you..<BR/><BR/>I just get peed off when I see good people such as yourself get hurt by the petty mindness of others.<BR/><BR/>Your so called friend owes both yourself and your couisin an apology.<BR/><BR/>Your Cousin should be directing her anger at this third party not you.<BR/><BR/>If you do by chance get any more pipnvikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457147675975500592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-82567722588902505912008-09-18T06:51:00.000+01:002008-09-18T06:51:00.000+01:00Sharon,The only person you have to be happy with i...Sharon,<BR/>The only person you have to be happy with is yourself.<BR/><BR/>If other poeple just cant seem to get thier shit in one sock and get their priorities sorted.. Not your problem.<BR/><BR/>You are only the black sheep if you let them label you so.<BR/><BR/>Keep smiling<BR/>Philpipnvikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457147675975500592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-7852080708221558442008-09-17T15:37:00.000+01:002008-09-17T15:37:00.000+01:00Little Mo. That's my thinking too, on both counts....Little Mo. That's my thinking too, on both counts.<BR/><BR/>Nice to see you here :)Sharon Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09050104785278502068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-84439297919230382982008-09-17T13:06:00.000+01:002008-09-17T13:06:00.000+01:00Quite honestly I'd be inclined to tell them to jus...Quite honestly I'd be inclined to tell them to just go stuff themselves if that's the way the treat family. You at least deserved the chance to tell your side of the story. Sounds like you're better off without them.<BR/><BR/>I don't think your friend should have made contact with your cousin's boss without consulting you first. That was out of order.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-35694940395439628042008-09-17T12:42:00.000+01:002008-09-17T12:42:00.000+01:00@ jade of the jungle. The person concerned doesn't...@ jade of the jungle. The person concerned doesn't know them and to be honest, I don't really care. As I said, I grew apart from them a long time ago so I'm hardly missing them. They can think what they like. I know the truth.<BR/><BR/>@ Emmani. I can't be bothered to do anything about it for that very reason - the drama just wouldn't be worth it. Let them get on with their lives and I'll get on Sharon Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09050104785278502068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-46881351259335717012008-09-17T12:36:00.000+01:002008-09-17T12:36:00.000+01:00Sharon that's such a shame but you've done nothing...Sharon that's such a shame but you've done nothing wrong so don't let it worry you.<BR/><BR/>Some people might think that certain jokes are funny but you don't just go around telling them to everyone.<BR/><BR/>Hope you're doing ok.HJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17930344228404794794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-57166693634248870402008-09-17T12:23:00.001+01:002008-09-17T12:23:00.001+01:00It's really sad how such trivial nit picky things ...It's really sad how such trivial nit picky things break up families and friends. It's something that on the family side I've never had to deal with, our family can fit round a large table and the rest of them, I hardly know their names. <BR/><BR/>As for friends, they come, they go... I'm not one for hanging on to relationships if I'm not happy. <BR/><BR/>I think 'enlightened' people who realise emmanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04210606593812739748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7355169292089791281.post-57190489004961946962008-09-17T12:23:00.000+01:002008-09-17T12:23:00.000+01:00Oh no Sharon, what a frustrating situation!!! When...Oh no Sharon, what a frustrating situation!!! When it comes to family it is never easy is it?<BR/><BR/>I dont know what to suggest really. If you've explained the situation then what else can you do? Perhaps the friend you sent it to should stick up for you and let them know it had nothing to do with you? <BR/><BR/>How frustrating though!<BR/><BR/>J xJade of the Junglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05328733373498513195noreply@blogger.com